Maika,

In OLD it states I have kids. Not how many or ages or pictures of them. If a woman is interested in me I work it into the conversation so they know I have kids and I coparent 50/50. I can date in age ranges where women don't have kids yet, and they need to know this. Especially since my kids are all under the age of 10.

Make sure your profile has at least 1 full body shot. At least 1 head shot with a smile. No bathroom pics, but gym pics are ok if you are a serious gym rat. Only 1 picture with sunglasses, women want to see your eyes. I hear from women that a lot of guys take pics with there dog which I guess works for some people. Many women tell me its a bit cliche and doesn't distinguish yourself. If you have to do selfies keep it to 1.

If you are OLD don't do the penpal garbage. Try to move it off the site and to a phone and/or drink date pretty early on.

You are marketing yourself, and the first date is like the first job interview.


H(37) W(35)
D8, D5, S3
T20, M13
BD 8/31/18
EA Discovered 9/13/18
Mediation 10/3/18
W files for D 10/12/18
W moves out 11/10/18
EA confirmed 12/25/18
D Final 1/10/19