Kml- you’re probably right. Also, one day I would like the validation that he feels he made a huge mistake. Wishful and selfish thinking on my part.... gotta let that go. The outcome doesn’t change for me.
With that, just a little midday verbal venting—-
There’s some paperwork that needs to be done in order to get the settlement process going. My ex is supposed to initiate it. I’m perturbed that my lawyer is the one initiating it and then sending it to ex and his L to actually fill out. If my lawyer doesn’t do it, they’ll just sit on it and not act. Much like the bifurcation. I’m now 14 months post bifurcation with no court papers submitted bc they haven’t done it.
So, yes, I want this to get moving but why am I paying my lawyer to do their work??? Do you think it’s intentional so I have to pay more or do you think they’re that inactive/lazy?
Also, when I got the house appraised on my own, I got the report back for my use only. I paid for it because they wouldn’t help. So his lawyer is trying to get a court order for me to share the appriasal. Ummm no. There’s some legal stipulation that I don’t have to. Anyway, there’s threats from their side... blah blah.
I make up that my ex is going to say that it’s a bias appraisal anyway, much like he did for everything else- the CPA etc.
Grrr go away, ex!!!
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
