Thanks guys. I’m trying so hard to wait till later to see who responded.
My pics look like me. The lighting is off and not in a super flattering way. Little makeup (I don’t know how to put it on right) and I’m mostly wearing work out type outfits. I had no recent dressy pics of me. Just 1 which is dressy for me (black pants and a frilly tank top) but not comparably. I always feel funny asking people to take pics of me.
I can’t help but look at the other woman”s profiles and a lot of them are very glamorous looking. I just haven’t been to any glamorous places. I’m shocked that 42 year old teachers are posting bikini shots. Yes, they look like they live at the gym. And a lot of them have had work done. It’s ok though. I’m not gonna click with a guy that likes those type of women anyway. I have to stop comparing.