Complex WW and/or MLC #3

[P_Jam]

Hi Sandi,
You are 100% correct - that IS my point. I will share everything with her that she wants/needs to hear about mine. No it was not someone close to her or a friend. Everything she knows about mine (which is ALOT) I have provided 100% on my own to her. Eventhough I did not want to. I've asking/telling her since the very first conversation that these details should be shared in MC. But becuase she has pressed me have answered the questions she has had so far. There is still a few details (timelines, etc) that I could need to disclose but the "bad stuff" is really already on the table from my side. I have done this show that I"m committed to doing things differently if we move forward. But she has lied to me multiple times in the very recent past about her affairs. "Nothing happend, we're just friends, He was the only one, No way, I wouldn't do that".
So I have suggested that we stop these conversations until she actually ready to have a discussion about them (like I am) in MC. I only pressed her this one night because she brought it all up and then lied again. So I'm just trying to tell her that my expectation for the reconciliation process will be getting all of this on the table for both of us. I do not want to have these hard conversation without MC present to help us walk through the proper steps of getting over the affairs.