I’m in a different phase of life where a lot of single (divorced) men do have young kids. If a guy did not disclose he had children, it would be a red flag for me. I would make-up that he’s ashamed of having kids, maybe is an absent father, maybe he is the one that instituted the divorce to ditch the family responsibilities and live the free life..... etc etc.

Think of it this way.... maybe it’s not about generating a ton of interest via old, but moreso quality interest.
I would divulge the fact that you have kids. Don’t want to waste anyone’s time.


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16