Haven't updated in a while cuz nothing new has really happened. I've been so busy that I've not had a chance to go get the D paperwork notarized. My plan is to do that next week and get it all submitted. ExW hasn't pushed on it so that's I guess the most interesting part of it all.

I was reading Ginger's thread and had a question. Thought I'd ask in my own thread rather than hijack hers.

What's been people's experience putting down that they have kids in the OLD profile? I definitely wouldn't put any pics of my kids on OLD, but I am debating whether to say I have kids or not. I am off OLD right now, but when I was on for a few weeks early in the year, I got no hits. the profile was good and I asked a couple of friends to vet it. Still no luck. I also live in a small-ish city but that shouldn't be a huge factor. So, I am thinking that me saying that I have kids might've been it. I could be wrong.

I am wondering if there is a better way to go about this. I don't want to deceive anyone deliberately about having kids, but at the same time I wonder if it is too much information up front.

Would love people's thoughts on this.


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