lol at the hair removal! I love the being empowered by not reacting. Someone on here who Red talks about drinking the STFU smoothie, and I think about that quite a lot when I want to send a text to my H. Being impulsive is not helpful in our sitches! The other thing which people say quite often about DBing is that sometimes doing nothing is the best thing to do, also true. I also love the bit you said about having expectations for yourself but not your H, that is very wise.
