Good! This process encourages introspection, but at some point you have to stop thinking quite so much and take action. That sounded like a healthy exchange on the way to the station, I hope you can have more of those no matter what happens. My H was also very much like that, accused me of not supporting him but was pushing me away so very hard when I was trying to support him that it was impossible. Well, maybe it wasn't impossible but it felt like it was, I didn't have the tools to do so, and he didn't have the tools to tell me HOW he needed support (if he even knew, I suspect he didn't). It's like the longer you''re together with someone the less you're able to tell them what you need, how ironic.