What would help you to receive more comments is updating your thread more and leaving more details and specifics about your sitch.
From what you have provided, seems to me you are doing great at GAL. Keep up the hard work and continue to detach. Continue working on yourself.
Now as for as your W, if she calls you again and accuses you of lying, don't accept that treatment. Kindly inform her that you won't continue to allow her to speak to you like that and if it continues you will have to hang up. And if she continues, hang the phone up! Don't make statements that you aren't willing to back up.
It's time to be strong and confident. Keep moving forward and provide us details.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
