Perhaps you can imagine that your H isn't your H at all, and just some man you were dating. Would you carry on with the dates as they stand? Would you push back a bit and negotiate something that worked better for you?
I completely agree with Alison on this. Try and think of how you would handle a friend who did this. That way it's not about keeping score, or holding things against your H (which he will pick up on) but just being honest with your boundaries etc. THEN, if he doesn't like it he can lump it because you aren't walking on eggshells, you just have things you are willing to do and things you aren't!
I'm happy for you that you have a great weekend planned !! have FUN!!! I so need to find something to do that doesn't make me feel exhausted before I leave
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Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
