Thank you again. Once I can write more I will. Now as I stated so much has Happened is like being in a Nightmare. I wish I can say my story Is getting better. Unfortunately my ex Has the financial memes I don't I do cook and sell things but not enough To hire a lawyer as I been told my several lawyers This is a high custody case. The only thing I have by My side is the truth and God. So much lies is still Unbelievable.
Thank you again 🙏
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
So sorry to hear the turn your situation has taken I have no words except to continue to gain strength through your spiritual beliefs as you have and see what happens I strongly believe that if we continue our growth and surrender to what is --while taking proper action with integrity, God will take care of the rest
Unfortunately the kids are in the middle, but you still get custody 1 week on one off...correct?
So in your week, as you are already doing.--.just love them and continue to let them know you are there
time goes so fast and my youngest is graduating and they will be adults with their own minds to choose and she will have No power-
There is no way for her to escape..no matter what she tries to do because in the end Karma will be the one in control- ((HUGS)))
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
Yes for sure Karma. And the story is way worse then I wrote But I also see the light through this and see God plans. Unfortunately financially is the reason am Here. My ex has the OW and her family.
What I have is God and I have a peace in my mind I know I never wanted this and W is simply out of control
What the last couple months have taught me is to take control of my life and boundaries, and W doesn't Like boundaries so in her words am going to punish you
And the 3 beautiful kids are involved and torn.
Am still here, I have faith and have forgiveness W I also Know there's to much damage she has done not only with Me but have hurt 3 beautiful children's.
I am keeping my faith and God and I talk and I keep asking him To keep guiding me. His plans are bigger then my plans.
And thank you and hoping my story can be told
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
Hoping we can come together to help Others. In my opinion we are like family here and if one is hurting we should be able to help and if there's left over funding I know there's always another family can use.
I honestly need a lawyer I am in mylast hope.
Praying is all I can do. Pray for a Miracle to save 3 small children's
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
Marina, so sorry to hear about all this. It sounds so awful.
What you said about her eyes -- The eyes are really a window onto their damaged souls! -- I keep having the thought about my H too, that the eyes are so evil. Likewise his L.
Can you watch youtube videos on going pro se? It is not ideal but you do have rights and you can learn how to file motions. I did it for a different case and almost did it for my D but then was able to borrow some money.
You can also call the ACS anonymously if you think that the kids are in danger. Or enlist their help to work as a team.
Or maybe you can get free legal help -- maybe someone can advise you about going pro se even if they can't actually be your lawyer. It seems like you have been abuse, if not physically then emotionally and most definitely financially. There is free legal help for victims of abuse.
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I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.