H text me yesterday with an update on his test that has been stressing him out. He passed with a 90! I knew he could do it. He has never had confidence in himself when it came to school stuff. I've always tried to encourage him otherwise. He is smart enough but can't see it. I did learn something about myself recently when he started this new class for work. That even though I have been bis biggest cheerleader I was also an unintentional enabler. If he was too busy or too stressed I would help him or flat out do the work. I thought I was helping. Contributing to the growth of his career to help the family in turn. And why shouldn't help? I was ONLY staying home with the kids...
Fast forward to last week. He has a paper due. I get it 6-8 pages about stuff you find uninteresting [censored]. Yes I can under the right circumstances write that much in a couple hours. BUT he had the b*lls to offer to pay me a couple hundred bucks to write it for him! I laughed and said NO. He of course tried buttering me up with compliments. I just want to say dude you fired me as your wife. The handholding for schoolwork is over. Heck I don't even do that for the kids!! Guess he'll really get a dose of who's had his back all these years. 'Cause if the OW is still around he sure isnt asking her for help.
Last edited by Goddess8; 06/05/1904:10 PM.
Me: 36 H: 37 M: 16 T: 17 Kids: S15 D14 D11 BD: July '18 OW confirmed Nov '18 (he told me) H moved out Jan '19
