It's good to hear that you are working with an IC.
Anniversaries and the like can be hard. That's totally normal. Feel it, acknowledge it, and let it go.
Stay strong, and let us know what happens with the Bumble girls!
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019