I understand that because it has been a short amount of time since BD that my actions might make you think I am attached but I don’t think I am. I haven’t been thinking about her and have just been doing my own thing. Call BS all you want but I have been very happy this past week. Is it ideal? No. Is it shtty that our family is broken up and our S might never know what it’s like to have parents together? Yes. But life goes on. I’m trying to find the positives in this and step out of my comfort zone to try new experiences with new people. I have been and I’m really enjoying it for now.
Well that would be a very fast turnaround post BD but it's different for everyone so I will take your word for it. You two weren't together long and you are quite young so that would be a factor in helping you detach sooner too. In general I think you're doing well as far as not replying to her texts and such, that might look a little "cold and indifferent" to her but that's not necessarily a bad thing. Definitely better than temp checks!
