Yes, I think we're in exactly the same place. I am sorry you are where I am, because it is awful, but knowing there's someone else treading the same path makes it feel like less of a unique catastrophe and more of a painful part of what is normal in these situations, if you see what I mean.
I don't think H would ever proceed towards divorce. Limbo suits him. He's as afraid as I am. I think I'm more afraid of things staying the same between us than I am of getting divorced right now, which feels a bit scary to admit.
