Dilly - He asked if I was divorced and I told him no. We are waiting for the 2 years separated so we can go no fault (I don't actually know if this is true though)
So adventures ... (and this is for Alison)
Date no. 2 yesterday. Drink after work. Conversation was like pulling teeth and halfway through the second drink I was wondering if it would be rude to say "I have to go, early start tomorrow". He seemed so nice on chat. Funny, smart, cute. Turned out he couldn't hold a conversation and, though he had a nice enough face, was heroin chick skinny. When I asked what sort of things he was into he replied "I don't really do very much". So, whilst trying to work out how to escape, he says "you have a beautiful @rse" and then "I'd really like to lick it". Queue me going, thanks, I really have to go now.
Date no 3 tonight. Single dad, late 30's. Lovely but no chemistry (not that there was chemistry with date no 2, the @rse licker). We are going out again next week so will see if there are any sparks on the second date.
Date no 4 later tonight - he enticed me with "let's get a bottle of wine and make some bad decisions". This kind of appealed to me on a poetic level, but thinking of it now, and some of the 'offers' i've gotten, I suspect there may have been some hidden innuendo and am rethinking it all.
The 25 year old continues to text me every day. I still think it's a bit weird, but it is nice to have someone who checks in and wants to tell me what's happening with him. They aren't particularly 'sexual' texts, more "visited temple today" and then some photos, followed by "can't wait to see you", or "was thinking of you when I took this photo", followed by a pic of a beautiful sunset.
Absolutely not viable in the long term, but still nice that someone is thinking of me whilst looking at a beautiful sunset.
