I heard what I believe to be a great statement on a YouTube Video one day and it helped me. "Forgiveness is giving up the ability to trying to change the past."
I hope that helps some.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.