This is rough. D16 is extremely unhappy and was already battling depression.
I had a long talk with my kids tonight centeres around the importance of healthy communication between all of us.
I told them that I am sorry for my part and any of my past toxic behavior that they had to deal with and the BS they had to deal with while sh*t was headed downhill.
It was a good heart to heart. I told them I truly do hope their mother finds peace and happiness in her ventires and that she gets through this hurtful time and is again happy. She deserves to be happy as well.
We all deserve to be happy. D16 cried and held me. She hasnt done that in a very long time.
I was able to secure a little time off of work. I feel that is the best course of action because I feel that I need to be here with my kids this first week with me and them in a new house.
They are very comfortable here fortunately. S12 told me "this house is not creepy"
I feel the same. I am glad its not creepy. Going to take the kids to a movie tomorrow. Looking forward to it.
I have faith that time will heal all wounds. Im a patient man now. I cant hold out.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019