Done with a WW and moving on

[SoTorn]

Jujub,

She would have to have a reason. There is not a reason. Also, no child support. Technically she should be paying me but I havent asked for it. But if I need to I will. We have 50 50 custody. Her seeing my home is not in the decree.

Kml,

The behavior I see and saw was persistent throughout the marriage. I just dealt with it because I felt that was best for the kids and MR. Extremely controlling, hyper judgmental and critical, loving at arms length, constant bkame shifting, never admitting fault or wrong doing, always right, always better than everyone, zero empathy. They were there the entire marriage, they just flared massively when she had her MLC that led to her A.

Im very glad I found these forums. Ibwas spinning and pursuing and spinning. I found my strength to drop this shell of who used to be my wife and move on.

I am still very sad moving out and having my kids half the time. I have never lived alone or without my kids. So im struggling finding the normal feeling. Ill get there.