LH and IHC, I see what you mean. I shouldn’t be replying to many of her questions. About her asking for me to have S for 2 weekends in a row I should have gone straight to no instead of why.
LH I assure you my son is fine. If it is my day with him I am an awesome dad. He is fed, clothed and gets a bath every night haha. Not sure if your comment was in response to me partying on the weekend, but there is no partying or drinking if I have my son.
AS, I get that my replies show attachment and that I need to work on that but I honestly feel pretty detached. If she were to call me this very second and say hey let’s get back together and work on things I am positive I would say no. I think she has a lot of attitude problems that would need to change before I would consider being with her. I understand that I shouldn’t have even gotten into that R talk with her and I need to work on shutting them down early.
AS about partying and guys gone wild: I’m 26, this is what all my friends do on the weekends. If my friends are going out and they invite me, I’m not gonna say no! I’m not partying to get a reaction out of my wife. I have had basically no contact with her aside from the R texting that she initiated. I haven’t called or texted her once. Whenever she texts relating to S I replied extremely briefly or not at all.
I understand that because it has been a short amount of time since BD that my actions might make you think I am attached but I don’t think I am. I haven’t been thinking about her and have just been doing my own thing. Call BS all you want but I have been very happy this past week. Is it ideal? No. Is it shtty that our family is broken up and our S might never know what it’s like to have parents together? Yes. But life goes on. I’m trying to find the positives in this and step out of my comfort zone to try new experiences with new people. I have been and I’m really enjoying it for now.
