Had a talk with W last night. I know this goes against the forum advice here but things were not moving in a good direction anyways.
I asked to talk about how my W said I had been distant for several weeks. She diverted into talking about going to MC soon. I offered to contact some, she said okay. This morning I find she's contacting one who specializes in collaborative D. I guess I shouldn't be surprised. She said he specializes in "conflict resolution and family communication."
Other than her blow-up 2 weeks ago about "my distance," which threw me for a loop because I couldn't figure out why she was so bothered, I've just seen no signs that W is invested in our M. All of our positive interactions seem aligned with having a healthy co-parenting post-D R. All of her secrecy about future plans, texting her friends, doing her own GAL activities (no EA/PA, just doing tons of stuff with female friends)... No interest in me. No asking me how I'm doing. No ILY. For some reason she still wants to do the morning hug thing.
Honestly I don't know what to do at this point. Just keep living like I'm deaf, dumb, and blind to the fact she wants out? It's so obvious that it's driving me nuts.... she is not having second thoughts and taking her time, she's lining up her ducks in a row. I guess I can look at the bright side that she wants to collaborate and not make this totally divisive...
