Right now, no, she doesn't recognize the issues she needs to work on. However, if she is seeing a therapist, this person may help her navigate her crisis a bit more and delve into her past. If she is one of the lucky ones, she will eventually see the light and face those issues and come to realize that she was a child and not at fault for whatever happened. Until then, she needs to go through the entire crisis to get to the other side.
You didn't break her, therefore, you can't fix her. Keep the focus on you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
