I agree with LH, Hallzy it sounds like you are still very attached and just doing things hoping to get a reaction out of your W. I'm not really buying your whole "guys gone wild" routine as evidence of detachment or GALing. You're not even 3 months past BD, what you do with your life is your business but it's far too soon to be out dating and partying it up like you're single again. You really should bring it back a notch or two until you're better-adjusted to your situation.