So last night I was out drinking and GAL with friends. It is Ws weekend with our son. At like 1130pm she texts me and wants to talk about scheduling.
No way should he have responded to a text sent at 11:30 at night. Make her wonder what you're doing. Respond the next day.
Originally Posted by Hallzy9
I asked her “why?”. She replied that it was a busy week and didn’t give a concrete reason that she couldn’t have our son. I replied simply “no sorry.”
Never ask why. You either agree to do it or not. None of his business why.
Originally Posted by Hallzy9
I validated her complaints but reinforced that I didn’t think it was okay for her to just up and leave and tear up our family in the process. At one point she got super angry and was spouting [censored] at me. “I hate you blah blah”. I replied that if you hate me stop fckin texting me and leave me alone.
Right here is a statement that shows attachment. This exchange should have never happened for many reasons.
Originally Posted by Hallzy9
She then got very disrespectful and started spouting that I was probably fckin some whore and blah blah blah. I replied that “if you are going to accuse me of sleeping with whores I’m done talking to you.”
No response needed. Just immature babble on both ends.
Originally Posted by Hallzy9
I basically said last night that if she had no intention or working on our relationship then I didn’t want her contacting me.
Again attachment right here. Please come home and work on the relationship.
