Bum massage man, ewwwwww! He might have some brains but he was definitely thinking with some other part of his anatomy there smile

That's nice about your MIL. Mine is a poisonous cow who my kids don't want to see, I don't want to see, and my H doesn't want to see. That's what happens to you when you abandon your family and are a selfish narcissist all your life.

Good luck with 30 something man!