I don't really know what it's about. There is nothing on my profile suggests I am into younger men or into random hook ups. There are a couple of face shots, a pic from skiing and a pic out to dinner with friends. It shows my age and that I have children. All pics are fully clothed with no cleavage in site. My answers are light hearted, for example "the key to my heart is: making me laugh".
I decided not to approach anyone - just wait for what comes through. However as I only seem to get men in their 20's, a few in their 30's and then men in their 60's It seems that men in my age range are not interested in women in their age range. I have started chatting with a guy in his late 30's who seems normal - the one with a son. We are meeting for drinks on Tuesday but will both be heading our separate ways after as we both have the children that night.
I did agree to meet the one who wants to give me a bum massage (before he mentioned the bum massage). He initially seemed normal and suggested we meet on Friday for meal and I said I already had plans. He then text me pretty much all night asking if I was done yet, that he was only 10 mins away in an uber, that he could come get me if I that was easier and finally, the offer of the naked massage. I said tempting, but unlikely as I was out with girlfriends and it was going to be a long night. He then asked if he could call me when I got in to chat. Pity because he is really nice looking and has a job that sounds like he might have some brains.
On the H front I saw him briefly saturday as he asked if he could come have lunch with the girls and I. I haven't seen him since and probably won't now until he gets back from his boys holiday in vegas next week. He does have the girls tomorrow and tuesday night and is then dropping them at school before he heads off for his holiday. His mum didn't even know he was going away. That is how secretive he is.
After lunch the girls and I headed into London to watch a show. We took the train in with a girlfriend and her daughter (who were going to the musuem) and spent a pleasant train ride with them and then stopped at a cafe for a bit. It was nice. It was a long day (we watched the evening showing) and it was after midnight before we got home. D12 was most amused at the people on the train coming home. All slightly (but pleasantly) tipsy from watching the football finals. She giggled a lot to herself on the train listening to their conversations.
Today we went to MIL's house. D12 wanted to see her so I rang this morning. H wasn't there as he is 'away' (i.e. working or out). It was pleasant enough. We chatted about holidays etc and I have set up a whatsapp group for his mum, H and I so that we can co-ordinate days out for his mum and the girls - she said she didn't know who to call when she wanted to see the girls.
