I just I'm just hesitant about counselors.... they wield a lot of power to validate something which is wrong. I've done some glancing online of counselors here and I see that whole "girl-power" thing in effect: "Help with live transitions, get on with your new life, self empowerment, etc". Messages like that are 100% what is NOT needed, and they are all lies. Deception.
So finding help which isn't skewed to D is very important. That's why I was asking.... and I totally think you're right, it'll be IC before MC.... and I won't have any input on that.
