So so new to this :(

[peacetoday]

My meeting with H went really, really well. He seemed like his old self, he was talking a lot, held eyecontact, joked around, so it was a good and confusing meeting. It made me wonder is he really this happy? Is he not in MLC? Could he just be a WAS? And if so is the approach for DB still the same? (I really would need the book to arrive already, I ordered it two weeks ago!)

You will know if it is MLC usually by the way they progress as well as their current choice of lifestyle
1-affair partner--sometimes younger-usually a loser (emotionally)

2-new clothes, tattoos, new cars, motorcycle, hair changes,
spends money carelessly, parties, drinks, drugs, gambles, stays up late, new friends, lies, irresponsible father,

3- usually gets worse over time-poorer choices, addictions, debt

Usually it does not matter if it is was or MLC
We act the same--and you are doing so well-
with your progress-

Im not sure the progress of a WAS
others might know
but
in my opinion the MLC life will consistently go downhill
as they reach for a fantasy life that does not bring them the happiness they think it will
they continue to raise the anti
of destruction--that is my opinion and that is how you will know for sure
You will see him living out MLC-and because it takes so long--you will see it clearly as time goes on-

trust the process