I do not think that she's going to want to seek out counseling at this time. You should continue w/your counseling for as long as you think you need it.
If your wife decides to seek out counseling, it might be wise for her to see a counselor at first on her own and then go from there. She may have a lot of issues that she will need to discuss w/a professional and she may not feel comfortable and open up w/you in the room.
If and when it is time to seek "couples" counseling, you may want to look into solution based counseling in your area. Sure, you can drag your wife to CO, but wouldn't it be best to locate someone in your immediate area that you can make appointments to see periodically.
Just my two cents.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
