Married couple from Scandinavia

[BenB]

Thank you DnJ, your posts are so relaxing to read. You are right. I was so close..so close to say something that could have potentially been life changing in a negative way.

I´m glad I didn´t say anything besides asking where the ring is. But I´m sure she must have felt the tension when I held it in. I hope I get better at shrugging things off. It really did hurt since we´ve been quite normal with each other the last few weeks.

As for the concert tickets, I understand what you mean but I don´t know how that conversation would be? She knows it´s just a text message away for me to the venue and doesn´t cost me anything. If she asks for tickets and I say no, she´ll want to know why. What would my answer be? If I don´t give one, she´ll assume I´m angry about the ring. Anything else is easier to deny her because that means I have to pay something, but the tickets she knows are effortless.

I have supported her a lot the last few years but I´ve always felt I owe her after she supported me during my financial crisis.

Thank you for bringing my focus back. I´ll make sure to come here and vent before I make any decisons.