I´m reading the DB book. Is that not the book I´m supposed to be reading? I´ve reached page 128 so far. I get that she´s not the same person anymore. And I´ve read for many, many hours on this forum. Some things are conflicting it seems. Are you saying the correct response to her taking the ring off is no response?
Is there any action from her that requires a response from me?
Thank you for all your advice. I haven´t reacted anywhere but here on this forum so far. I just wish I knew better what to do in specific situatons. I wish I could get away from her for a while somehow. End of August I am going on a tour of Europe for my work and will be gone for over a month. But that feels like a century away.
When we meet the therapist and he asks us how we have been, encouraging us to talk, I don´t know what to say. Everything I can say I´ve been recommended here not to say. So while we´re home and I´m behaving detached(somewhat) and not pursuing, not asking where she is going, not initiating R talks, focusing on myself and going to the gym every day, I might give off a vibe that I have mentally moved on but then we go to MC and I have to talk about my thoughts and feelings, clearly revealing to her that I haven´t moved on. But on the other hand, she likes going to therapy and looks forward to it. Can you understand how I´m confused over what to do and what is the right action?
Last edited by BenB; 06/01/1902:07 PM.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019
