I am okay. He's furious about me changing the council tax and contacting our mortgage broker and started speaking to me terribly about it. I spoke to him in very strong terms about the language and tone from him I would no longer tolerate and chucked him out. Youngest saw this, which I am not proud of (I didn't raise my voice, but I did interrupt H and ask him who the XX he thought he was speaking to) but a line needed to be drawn. H did actually slink off looking pretty shocked.
I have excellent plans for today and I am feeling okay.