So H has really fallen off the radar. Haven't seen him a 2 or 3 weeks as he comes over to cut the grass and get his mail when I am at work. Last time I saw him was very brief. I have asked him to inform me when he comes over, but he usually doesn't.
D19 told me yesterday that H was taking her to lunch on Saturday. This is only the 2nd time he will spend any amount of time with her in 4 weeks.
So today, I get a message from H stating he will be taking his normal $ from our account on Saturday for his next months bills, cutting the grass, and taking D19 out to lunch. He sent a 2nd message saying "Welcome to join us if you wish".
So, with DBing in mind, should I go? Ask D19 if she wants to have alone time with her dad?
What do I want to do? I'd probably go just out of curiosity to see how he is doing. I've vowed not to ask him anythings anymore or initiate anything. An I haven't in 2 or 3 weeks.
