I totally agree with you about the OW... I know she is meaningless, that she is a 'Band Aid''...I'm going through all these processes..and I suppose I needed others opinions on it...
As for meeting him again, I think it is for me, to give me the power to say you know what i'm calling it a day, not you...I've become the stronger person... He cant dictate all the rules in this... Maybe it is totally selfish maybe not... maybe he wont give a crap at this time, but in time,when he does reflect on what he has lost.. He will remember our conversation when I say to him I deserve better treatment and that I am in a good place,looking forward and not back.. its kinda like an ''up yours''' type of scenario!
