I really wish you would understand that time and space is the only thing that will change this around long term. Talking, letters and pursuit will just further seal your fate.
It's been 11 days. If she really wanted to talk she would have approached you by now. DB gives you the best chance to turn it around. Do You know how many guys came to the board and paid for programs that they admit made matters worse because it involved pursuit? Dozens.
Right now you are trying to use logic and reason with an emotional human being. If we could just talk we could work it out. You feel the need to do something. This is known as the "illusion of action". The only action you should be taking is going in the absolute opposite direction.
U the number one problem is that what you fear you attract and right now your irrational fears are getting the best of you.
