Plan for today is: contact mortgage broker and get a figure for what it would cost me to buy him out of the mortgage. Some work to do this morning, and some skype appointments this afternoon. Beach trip tonight with Youngest (Eldest will be out socialising - which I am glad about). Tomorrow morning I have GAL plans and need to do some housework in the afternoon. Will try to see a friend on Sunday. I suspect I will be sad, but also purposeful and I don't want to lose that purpose. This is my marriage ending and I need to take some practical action to get the finances sorted.