Just finished the first reading of NMMNG.

Lots in there I recognise - I need to work through the book properly again and do some serious introspection.

A shame you only go looking for this stuff when it’s possibly too late to save R/M. Always useful for next time though...would help stop the complacency and laziness at least.

I’d have liked to have been able to share this with my W too but way too late for that. Is there an equivalent for women? Lots of this would apply to her in a similar way I think.


H41 (me), W43
M10, Together 16
S18, D9

BD - Jan 19
‘Temp’ S (I moved out) - Feb 19