Remember when you were a kid. And someone told you not do something. "Don't go into that room." "Stay out of the cookies." "Don't watch that movie." It made you want to do it more than ever, didn't it?
WAWs are like rebellious teenagers. The minute you make something taboo, or tell them not to do it, or show displeasure at it the more she will want to do it. Besides, this guy is not your problem. We tend to focus on the OM. Your problem is trying to regain respect, and therefore attraction from your W. And you do that by leaving her alone, giving her space, and foscusing on yourself, your GAL, your detachment, your 180s. Leave her to figure her stuff out.
The more you try to control her the more she will want to do things you don't approve of. You have to back off and leave her alone. As hard as that is to do.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
