Am I doing this right??

[Goddess8]

AS,

OW is not married. From what I can tell she is younger. More towards the mid 20's if not a little younger.

No he's never lived at the current house. Kids and I have only been in it a few months. I agreed to selling the previous house since its something we'd been talking about doing for a couple years because i knew taking care of an older house on land by myself would be hard. But it was with the express understanding that he would help us get a place like we'd talked about previously. He had tried to show me too small cheap rentals in less than great parts of town. Big no on that. He had already moved out a month prior to us closing on the new house.

She was deployed dec-may. I know they kept in contact the whole time. I did find out she had broken up with him multiple times because he was still talking to me. Go figure. The most recent breakup was a week or so prior to her getting back.

Yes since she came back and he completely ignored my existence on Mother's Day he made his choice well known I haven't spoken to him. I go for the "friendly cashier" approach when he comes to pick up the kids. In person when he's being friendly and engaging it takes conscious effort not to slip back into normal.