Because we've seen it before where the guy moved out and it just amped up his WAW's disrespect for him. Remember you are trying to get her to respect you now. Even when she doesn't like you. Make her respect you. Tucking your tail and leaving does that how?
You're buddy got lucky. Listen to the coach.
I’ve always worn the pants in the marriage. I don’t think there’s a lack of respect from her, if anything I didn’t show enough respect to her a lot of times. I’m not trying to argue, I’m just not sure if this is the sword to fall on with more of the same behavior that pushed her away.
Dad, we tell posters here what works. What you do is entirely up to you. However, DBing is about doing what is counter-intuitive. One thing I would do when I started DBing was to think what my instincts told me, and then do the opposite. I mean if you are just going to do what comes naturally then why do you need this site? Or DBing? Or advice based on all of that?
Wives don't D men they are attracted to. And they aren't attracted to men they don't respect. So believe it or not it is about respect. I mean how is all of this a show of respect on her part?!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
