I managed to copy most of the books and authors. Don't have what the posters recommended them for, but here's a start!
Love at midlife- Richard a. Osing
Women in midlife crisis- Jim and Sally Conway
Loving solutions- Gary chapman
Winning your wife back before it's too late- Gary smalley
Renew your marriage at midlife- Steve Brody and Cathy Brody
Stop blaming start loving- bill o'hanlon and pat Hudson
Love must be tough- dr James Dobson
Grow up- dr frank Pittman
Private lies- dr frank Pittman
Love is letting go of fear- Gerald g. Jampolsky
How to heal a painful relationship- bill ferguson
How to win your lover back Love tactics More love tactics
After the affair-Janis spring
The lost art of listening- Michael Nichols
Nonviolent communication:a language of life- Marshall Rosenberg
I gotta tell you, "Women in midlife crisis- Jim and Sally Conway" is an awful read. I got thru a third of it and my takeaway was "it's hopeless". Terrible book. Maybe I'll finish it later.