You are right. I am looking for signs that she is open to talk. She gave me a sign. She said she wanted to talk about my distance. There are multiple possible interpretations.
1. One interpretation is that is a small sign of her pursuing. She wants to talk. Maybe she is scared of me getting over-emotional, so hasn't followed up. Maybe me *not* talking to her about this just perpetuates the problems we had in January to March.
2. Another way would be that she's just building up anger to fulfill her narrative, and I'm naive to think this will help.
Our M has major communication problems. What would be the DB approach to addressing this?
