If you wife has already dropped the bomb, can using the love languages still help?
Filling her love tank is a maintenance item. Maintenance doesn't work after a breakdown.
Think of it like a car. Do the routine maintenance and it will keep purring along. Ignore the routine maintenance and you'll have a breakdown. Changing the oil on a car with a blown engine is a waste of time....and oil.
For LLs for now. Love yourself. GAL. Detach. 180s. Concentrate on what you have control over. Not what you don't.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018