Yes! I have gotten the I wasnt there for him too. Spitting rage is a good way to decribe it. And yes the jealousy is very accurate. I came to the conclusion mine was projecting and resentful of me "getting" to stay home. Forget the fact that being a SAHM comes with its own set of emotional issues. He'd lose his mind. But that is the difference; in his ugly moments he felt i didn't do anything or contribute because I didnt have a 9-5 income producing job. A job is actually one of the draws of the OW. But in true damaged hypocrite style he'd hamstrung me through the years about getting work with his jealous controlling behavior.
He hasnt moved back. Sorry if my post was confusing and rambled on. But I do agree with the lonely part. He's never lived on his own. He went from living at home to military and being married young with a family.
Me: 36 H: 37 M: 16 T: 17 Kids: S15 D14 D11 BD: July '18 OW confirmed Nov '18 (he told me) H moved out Jan '19
