I suspect you have mixed feelings in all this. Sad you have reached an agreement. Happy you have reached an agreement.
It’s ok. And yes there will be a certain amount of shock to overcome in all this, for both you and the kids.
Two days. On Saturday. He will move out. You will fine peace. You will lose your fears over this; we aren’t fearful of stuff that has happened. There has been a very heavy weight upon you for a long time, let it lift.
I too am sorry it has come to this. And I know you have a bright future waiting for you to discover it.
A wise letter from your priest friend. Get up, and keep walking. You are loved, you will be surrounded by the grace of God.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.