"When you text OW while you are married to me, I feel completely disrespected. If you continue to bla bla bla in my presence, I will confront you and share my feelings with you. If your behavior doesn't change, I will have some tough decisions to make.":
Perfect. Thank you. I'm reading a through the links you shared. One is Allen's regarding exposure. I believe this affair needs to be suffocated. Should I expose or is it too late? Can that be part of the "decision I will have to make?"