If your wife has already dropped the bomb, can using the love languages still help?
As long as you do them in a non-needy way, maybe.
The biggest issue 99% of the time is there is OM. Or at least a fantasy of one.
The best thing you can do is increase Alpha male traits. Change your behavior. Change your look. Change your beliefs. Change your thought processes. Change your voice.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
