Originally Posted by Steve85
Today go to her confidently, not angrily or sadly, and say:

"I do not think MC is effective for me. However, I feel that I need to work on myself so I am going to stop MC and start IC."


Practice this alone if needed.


Direct eye contact. Hold it until she breaks contact. Two tones deeper than you normal speak. Slower pace.



You should become a man of few words and much action around your W. Think Clint Eastwood.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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