I like your statement about not wanting to appear ambivalent to the affair, many here come off that way. But how do you show that you won't tolerate it?
I said F it and stopped worrying about wearing my ring 6 months ago. I haven't touched it physically, and more important mentally, since then. I was tired of being played.
Are you really going to be his ride or die if he has affairs forever? Is it fair to hurt your ride or die like this?
I also needed to go NC a couple times. The BS was just too much. I hope you are getting out and having fun. What's your GAL like?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.