Mine suffered for months. I just wanted to stare at a wall. I lead 450 people and I just wanted to sit in a corner most days. I had to tell the boss because they needed to know. I told a few select folks at work I could trust that I needed time and space and some help covering my load. Everyone stepped up to the plate to help, especially those that had been through a divorce before.
I'd encourage you to at least inform someone in your supervisory structure what is going on. You don't have to give them all the gory details, but it may help get some space, some grace for you from them, and you may find that people come out of the woodwork to empathize when you are ready.
Sorry that you are here, this is just the worst. We are here for each other, im glad you are posting here, it has helped me tremendously just to vent and learn where I need to improve.
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